Cat thinkies—invisible after menopause July 2, 2019 Poor Ursula. In middle age she feels invisible. Menopausal emotions. Blow to the self-image. If you like this, please share it!Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window)MoreClick to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pocket (Opens in new window)Like this:Like Loading... Previous: Tiny tip for happiness after 50: say thank you Next: Wordless Wednesday—beauty in the bath
8 thoughts on “Cat thinkies—invisible after menopause”
She might just be wondering how you chose that name. It may derive from Ursa (Latin: Bear), leaving her with identity confusion. My first school teachers were Ursuline nuns. Nothing about them was confusing, except perhaps their tendency to smash your fingers with a straight edge when your penmanship was not desirable (what a great way to remedy that problem).
So I would ask her what exactly is on her mind.
In my experience I have found being invisible can often be a great advantage. Not bad at all actually. Or maybe it is that I found the “visible” years of my life could get annoying and so being invisible is a relief.
Could be that Ursula is just too famous for her own good! But I understand your point. Small towns shine a light on everyone for better or for worse, but in a city we have a choice: I like that.
Invisibility is kind of the stuff of fantasy — all those cloaks — if you think about it. I say we rock what we’ve got. 🙂
True. It’s wonderful to have that choice!
I feel Ursula’s pain…
It’s just a phase. I’ve embraced my invisibility completely and I love it. Ursula will too, in time.
Thank you for your encouraging words.