Imagine yourself at 95
I’ve been a hypocrite. Until now I haven’t really tried to imagine myself at 95. It’s very hard. In a video I talk about my role models, while Ursula the cat undermines my dignity.
As background research for my play, The Secret Lives of Extremely Old People, I asked dozens of random pedestrians, “Imagine yourself at 95.” Nearly everyone gave me thoughtful and surprising answers. For example, here is just one, in the image below. This answer came from a strong, athletic woman, and will very likely come true.

I couldn’t answer my own question
Someone turned the tables and asked me how I imagined myself at 95. I was so embarrassed to realise that I didn’t have an answer. So I thought about it, and made a little video. Ursula the cat makes a mockery of my earnest attempt.
My 2 role models and 5 possible future selves
In the video I tell you who my role models are (I’m lucky there). But after delving deep into the lives of multiple nonagenarians, I’ve constructed five imaginary characters for my new play. It’s called The Secret Lives of Extremely Old People, and uses a technique that Australian playwright Alana Valentine calls ‘close work’ writing. I’ve mixed and massaged the exact words of multiple people in their 90s. Then I constructed characters that are not “real”, but have their own authenticity.
See the play at Circa Theatre, Wellington, New Zealand from 25 Nov-17 Dec.
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A fine upbeat video. I wish you every success with the play
Thank you, Derrick. I know you can’t be there!
Ursula obviously has no qualms about aging and will do as she pleases. I do so wish I was able to come to the play. Break a leg and, above all, enjoy!
You understand Ursula all too well.
I love your approach towards growing old Rachel
So far, so good!
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Wishing you great success with the play! No actual broken legs , though, just great luck and pleasure.
I do hope you can come. We might even meet each other!
Oh Rachel – I LOVE your videos and your kitty in the background was a wonderful addition. My mother will be 93 in a couple of months. I have to run to keep up with her. Her motto – you need to reinvent yourself over and over again. And it is important to connect with young people. She uses text and facebook to connect with her grandchildren. You are so right – it is a lot of work involved within the aging process. I believe that this is the time of our greatest journey.
I watched the documentary The Automat the other night and in that a then 95 Mel Brooks is wisecracking, singing songs, and reminiscing with much charm. I want to be like that when I’m older.
Hope the play goes well!
I must watch that. Sounds like another great role model.
I have a 95-year-old friend, and I say I want to be a Mildred when I am 95 – only ten more years away.
It’s great to have such a role model. And you are no doubt a role model for others, although you may not know it.